Wednesday, February 22, 2017

Part Two

About the divorce guy I get to know at Mac, now we still keep in contact but I just treat him as normal friend because I realize his character is not one I can depend on.

Firstly, he is money crazy, when I asked him to pray more and chant Buddha Name more, he asked does this bring more fortune, he is also crazy about 4D. I wanted to tell him life is not all about money, there are many things that are more important than money. Talking about money crazy, some of my relatives are also like that, they do not believe in doing good deeds, they do not have a religion and they are only concerned if something they do will bring in more fortune or not.

Secondly, he seems to have no sympathy, there was once he asked if I keep pets, I said I do not keep pets for fear that if they die, I will be sad, he then replied that if they die, just bury lor. How unsympathetic and loveless.

These are two observations I have for him.

Sometimes when I talk to him, I try to impart some knowledge of good values to him because I treat him as a friend but sometimes I am kind of disappointed because it seems he is not concerned.

I did not give him up totally, still remain as friend, because I kind of pity him as it seems he does not have many friends (I admit I am kind of soft hearted). And I also believe that we should be grateful for everyone we meet in our life. They are sent to us for a reason. Find out why they're in your life and learn from them. They're special guests for your evolution. Like TM said, there is a reason for everything, there must be a reason why I got to know him.

10 comments:

Hayley said...

Very good of you, hopefully he will change.
But also be careful la, these days a lot of cases happen...

Twilight Man said...

Wah! Your post is getting interesting like a novel from Barbara Cartlands. LOLOL

Yes everything in life happens for some reasons we often
don't know. Many times a stubborn partner changed for the better after listening to the other half. Then they fell in love and after a whirlwind romance, they kahwin & lived happily ever after......

So be patient with him and let your good fate decide.

mun said...

It is good to know that you are at peace with yourself on this matter.

Rose World said...

You are a sweet and forgiving lady, Libby. Hope this guy treats you well and appreciate you as a friend like how you treat him.

Phong Hong said...

You have a very positive attitude towards this guy. Hope it works out :)

reana claire said...

Yeah, out of the billions of people in this world, we get to know new friends so that is kind of special...

Nancy Chan said...

As a friend you can also pray for him to become a better person.

Merryn said...

He is lucky to have a friend like you.

CL (RealGunners) said...

The only reason why you got to know him is because he thought he can score a quickie. When talking about morons, you DO NOT think about karma or cause-effect, the only reason is because he has a hidden agenda, plain and simple.

I don't know why you still want to keep in touch with him. From your earlier post, it is clear his motives transcends friendship. By keeping in touch with him, you are just giving him the idea that you are hinting that there is still hope for him to get what he wants (a quickie).

Blerghh... I guess I should not say too much. Not my place to care anyway heh?

mun said...

I guess it takes a guy to know a guy.