Monday, September 15, 2014

About death

I had a chat with an uncle when I was having my meal at a coffeeshop. He told me his wife passed away already and when she passed away, he cried for over a year over her. After that, because of loneliness, he marries a Vietnamese girl in her twenties. What do you think of this uncle after hearing this? Actually there are two sides to a coin, first one would think that he should not marry again if he loves and misses his wife so much. But on the other hand, certain people may think that since his wife has passed away, he should move on with his life and be happy again and it is alright to marry again because his partner has passed away.

What do you think? Do share with me, I would love to hear from you.

9 comments:

இ Baŋäŋaz இ said...

Oh there are three 'death' post so pick the middle one. Well the past is gone, the future yet to come so live now. Live goes on...

ChrisAu said...

Dunno ...as long as what he likes. After all , it's his life. I don't see anything wrong with that. To me , it's best to wish others the best rather than criticising. But that's my opinion only.:)

Hayley said...

It depends on individual.
To me, I think it's not wrong for the uncle to marry another woman, it's his life, he has the choice, and I think his late wife also wants him to be happy.

mun said...

I guess if this man is my father and after my mother dies, he remarries a much younger girl, it would depends on whether the much younger girl really loves him or not and vice versa. If yes, then fine, I would wish them both well. If the girl is only marrying him for money and he only marries the girl due to lust, then I won't agree.

Princess Ribbon said...

Same with Hayley, it depends on individual.. You will never know when they right person suddenly comes along..

Rose said...

I think it is alright to find new love and companion. He still have his demised wife's memory in his heart.

[SK] said...

i believe it's all fated and he of course has his own choice towards what he wants in life as long as he is not doing something bad.. we are all not in a position to gossip anything about other, that's all i think.. :)

azurachan said...

Depending on the path he chosed. Perhaps the second marriage is better than the first one. We'll never know. His late wife still remains in his memory. That's nice to hear.

Libby said...

When the right person